Thank you for illustrating these points. Many of the considerations you mentioned could apply to any higher education program, especially for first generation students, such as myself. I was the first to graduate with an undergraduate degree, and the first person of the region of Alaska where I was born and raised to graduate with a law degree in 13 years. Nobody in my family has ever received a law degree. That being said, it was painfully embarrassing for me to ask my parents for money for anything, even when I needed it. The most I would get at a time was $300, which I asked for maybe once or twice per school year, when I was really short, needed money for books, and other things that couldn’t wait. My mom did pay off $5,000 of my debts my last year of undergraduate, which allowed me to get a 3.8 GPA whilst taking on 18 upper division credit units. All of my school tuition was paid through either scholarships, Pell Grants, or using my credit card.
I think most people who have never had to experience college as a first generation student have no idea what it feels like to be surrounded by other students whose parents did such things like: buy them a car, pay for their rent, give them a monthly stipend for groceries, put money on their student identification cards for meals on campus, etc. I had one friend whose parents bought him an amazing condo in the foothills while he was in school.
College isn’t designed for middle class families anymore. It’s designed for the ultra wealthy.
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